Well you are very biased, so I am not sure I should reply. I don't think Rogue fans minimize her actions. In fact, it is cause she was so wrong that I like her. What Rogue did to Ms. Marvel is what prompts her on her road to redemption. Her motive was to protect herself by getting the jump on Carol but her info, her who life was misguided. She was WRONG. Rogue was raised to hate the Avengers and specifically her mother had a vendetta against Ms. Marvel. Rogue overhears Destiny tell Mystique the she had a vision of Rogue being done in by Carol. Rogue decides she will handle this herself and confronts Carol herself with very dire consequences. Does she intend to kill her, I don't know. She definitely wasn't there to have tea.
Anyhoo, I like both Carol and Rogue as well. Rogue may be my fave, but Carol is no slouch! ;-)
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