Sometimes the universe takes care of you in a BIG way!

[Maidman]

I was on a second date with with woman I recently met. Any woman I date has to know, understand, and encourage my particular fashion sense (I wear womens panties and jeans). No 10 ways around it. I am not ashamed of it, IT IS PART OF WHO I AM. I HAVE BEEN REJECTED BEFORE BY WOMEN SEVERAL TIMES WHEN I TOLD THEM ABOUT THIS.

So the issue came up in a round about way on the second date. She asked me about my taking past gfs on panty buying trips, then asked me what kind of undies I like. So I grabbed 20 seconds of courage and told her on the second date! She replied, "thats it?" Thats your big secret? You like to wear panties? She told me that I can wear my womens flared or bell bottom pants, I can wear my comic tee shirts, I can wear flip flops or extra feminine panties or whatever I feel comfortable in because she is into me the person, not what I wear. Then she asked me where the best deals on panties are and what kind I like and where I shop! The fact that she was all dolled up in a short shirt with heels while I was wearing some faded flared blue jeans and an Iron Man tee shirt never bothered her. I looked like crap and she looked super hot! Actually some dude was crushing on her on our date. But she refuted him! W00t!

She is a freakin phenomenal woman and I am extremely lucky to have her.

Very hot, strawberry blonde that likes to wear heels and skirts and knows how to dress to the 9s!

How am I so lucky????? PS: I am not bragging as I have been rejected (SEVERAL TIMES!) by supposedly non judgemental, open minded woman in the past over this issue So what I am saying is that there are woman out there that not only accept but will encourage and share in your life. KEEP THE FAITH! Believe in yourself and all the past pain and rejection is 100% worth it! I NEVER felt more LOVED than I do at this very moment! I LOVE this woman, LOVE my girl clothes, LOVE COMICS, and LOVE this forum for all the guidance and support and good vibes it has given me over the years!

Last night seemed like a dream. After dinner (which SHE paid for) we went back to her place to get to "know" each other better. Talked and stuff for 9 hours! It was one of the best nights of my life! I have no secrets, I am an open book to this woman! And I get to see her tomorrow! WOOHOO Then she is coming over to my place and I am cooking for her!

[needler420]

Sound like something out of the rocky horror picture show.

To each their own.

[Spike-X]

Sounds like you are very lucky indeed.

[Donald M.]

What Spike said, with perhaps the added caveat that it's wise perhaps not to get too excited while the relationship is still so new, though being happy, certainly, is never a bad thing.

[Rasputin9977]

Dude seriously panties? Your balls must hate you.

[PsychoGoatee]

Lucky indeed! How'd you meet her?

[Maidman]

Dude seriously panties? Your balls must hate you.

Thats a BIG myth! Like anything else, you get the correct size and style and they fit like a glove. They DO stretch more so that mens undies, so they actually fit better! And they feel FAN-FREAKIN-TASTIC!

I find it extremely funny how many on here think they are so 21st century open minded, but when I talk about this, they get all victorian century on me. Tells me some of you are NOT as open minded as you claim! Its ONLY a piece of cloth! How come you cant be as cool my my girl here??????? Some of you are pretty uptight!

[needler420]

Thats a BIG myth! Like anything else, you get the correct size and style and they fit like a glove. They DO stretch more so that mens undies, so they actually fit better! And they feel FAN-FREAKIN-TASTIC!

I find it extremely funny how many on here think they are so 21st century open minded, but when I talk about this, they get all victorian century on me. Tells me some of you are NOT as open minded as you claim! Its ONLY a piece of cloth! How come you cant be as cool my my girl here??????? Some of you are pretty uptight!

Probably because the acts you do often envolve social and physiological problems. Or even forms of gender identity disorder.

[Maidman]

Probably because the acts you do often envolve social and physiological problems.

Really? Says you! They hurt NO living thing and break No laws! I think you are a very uptight person that is also very judgemental,

if that is the worst thing you can say about someone, that they wear panties, then the world would be a 100% BETTER place to live!

Its funny, because your attitude was EXACTLY how people felt about comic book geeks decades ago!

[The Black Guardian]

Thats a BIG myth! Like anything else, you get the correct size and style and they fit like a glove. They DO stretch more so that mens undies, so they actually fit better! And they feel FAN-FREAKIN-TASTIC!

I find it extremely funny how many on here think they are so 21st century open minded, but when I talk about this, they get all victorian century on me. Tells me some of you are NOT as open minded as you claim! Its ONLY a piece of cloth! How come you cant be as cool my my girl here??????? Some of you are pretty uptight!

I always thought that little opening in men's underwear made stretchability an irrelevant concept. It allows for size difference. And it's got nothing to do with Victorian anything, but something needs to hold the hanging parts that women don't have, without confining them.

But yeah... to each their own. Glad you seem to have found a girl that is understanding. Hope it continues for you.

There was a period, back in the 80s, when I'd buy women's size 11/12 Girbaud jeans. They did fit better than the male equivalent.

[the4thpip]

Really? Says you! They hurt NO living thing and break No laws! I think you are a very uptight person that is also very judgemental,

if that is the worst thing you can say about someone, that they wear panties, then the world would be a 100% BETTER place to live!

Its funny, because your attitude was EXACTLY how people felt about comic book geeks decades ago!

Pay no attention to needler. He did not get hugged enough on a child and is deafening the silent screams on his inside with cannabis and Republican talking points.

[Aaron Kashtan]

Probably because the acts you do often envolve social and physiological problems. Or even forms of gender identity disorder.

Which, as I learned from less than one minute of research, is not universally considered a disorder and will probably be renamed to something else in the next edition of the DSM.

Perhaps you should think twice before judging how other people live their lives.

[Rasputin9977]

Thats a BIG myth! Like anything else, you get the correct size and style and they fit like a glove. They DO stretch more so that mens undies, so they actually fit better! And they feel FAN-FREAKIN-TASTIC!

I find it extremely funny how many on here think they are so 21st century open minded, but when I talk about this, they get all victorian century on me. Tells me some of you are NOT as open minded as you claim! Its ONLY a piece of cloth! How come you cant be as cool my my girl here??????? Some of you are pretty uptight!

The panties you wear. You don't buy them off vending machines in Japan do you? Cause then I would totally understand your POV.

[Maidman]

Nope. I buy them the same places as anyone else. Stores in the city like Sears, Le Senza, Victoria Secrets, etc.

[svp]

good job on being pre accepted. More people should be like her.