No, I don't think he's saying that your examples amount to provocation; your examples are also extreme and appear to be a situation that's been brewing for a while; what he's pointing out is more moderate cases where women will goad and provoke men who are not usually as violent but get that way after a prolonged period of time; of course, it's equally his responsibility to come to the realization that this relationship is probably not right for him and move on, before devolving into someone prone to violence and eventually getting labeled as a wife beater; usually, there should always be a way out before striking someone, but one can come up with a few exceptions; but, it's also the woman's responsibility to judge a situation and consider that provoking a man who has a demonstrated history of snapping at people might quickly snap at her and proceed to start beating on her; however, the wife beater situation gets played up because she wants to remain with this guy for some reason, where, eventually, you're extreme examples might manifest itself; however, when pointing out provocation, clearly you're examples are not the only occasions that comes to mind.



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