Unfortunately, i think some BP fans thought she should have been totally loyal to Wakanda as its queen, while X-fans want her to be totally loyal to the Xmen, (and she somewhat should be) which has always been the issue with the union. But yeah, Storm did ask them to talk and tried to stop the fighting, to her credit. And that's in character.
I like that preview for AVX consequences...I like that Panther is chasing her and arguing about her questioning his feelings for her. it shows that he does care and is explaining why he had to do what he did. Its a great scene, and I hope both characters get some proper closure out of it.