Referring to the state of the marriage in Up, Up and Away was portrayed as perfect for both but when his powers returned, that was no longer enough for Clark. If during this time when this was all Clark was capable of and Lois got a great promotion in California in which she took, I would say the same. The marriage wasn't enough for her. But it was Clark that got the 'promotion' and changed the state of the marriage back to where it was before.
What I'm saying is you can't have a marriage with more than two people. We have Clark, Lois and the whole world. I'm not saying marriage is bad but its one sided against Lois. He's not giving up a normal life because that is his normal life. Its Lois that is giving up a normal life because she can't participate in his. Its like if he was also married to Maxima (a name I just pulled from memory). Would she really be in a different place? He can't spend time with her because he has to attend to Maxima. But he can always come home and tell her about his day with Maxima. She could be jealous of Maxima but is that really fair when Maxima is his wife? See what I'm getting at? Say the rest of the world is just one person and throw them into Lois and Clark's marriage. Is Lois as married to her job as her husband is to his? Again, not saying the marriage was terrible. It just wasn't handled that realistically to me so I didn't have a problem with it going away.



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I do see a difference between being Superman and being a cop, etc. All those professions get days off. Time specifically designed to get a break from the job. That doesn't exist for Superman. How sucessful was any of those marriages be if the cop, agent, etc was always on duty? And more importantly, if they are the only cop, doctor, etc? Like I've said before, marriage isn't going to always be equal between the two but in Lois and Clark's case its always lopsided toward the job of Superman. At no point will anything Lois needs in her marriage will outweight that. Even a quite evening at home together will be dependent on nothing needing his attention. And its not just an evening. Its overnight, breakfast, mid-morning, lunch, afternoon, dinner, evening... any time she has to spend with her husband will give way to what he may have to do. She has no foundation to build her life on because its always shifting according to what the world needs. Not her needs. Not even his. I'd hate to think how any children they might have had would be affected unless they do what they did with Lois, just have them smile happily that dad is home for three seconds and continue on like they have the best life ever.

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