I was just reading ASM #525 (yes a "other" story) and when May was talking to "Ben" she mentioned their hadn't been anyone since Ben. Well, what about Nathan? Someone may have pointed this out, I wasn't on here at the time this issue came out so I don't know.
The whole thing got me thinking about with this whole Jarvis thing they have forgotten about Nathan. They have made it appear that this is the first time May has dated anyone since Ben's death. It almost seems like they are trying to restore May's virginal innocence... okay maybe thats a little extreme but you see where I am going.