I think my boss is having an affair with another employee

[Super Hero Guy]

The other day I was walking into the backroom of my work, and I saw my boss and another female employee sneaked away in a corner. My boss looked like he was carressing her arms and whispering something in her ear to which she was giggling at. When they realized I had entered the room the abruptly stopped what they were doing and went on to work as if nothing had happened.

Now, today I was at work and I saw my boss and the same woman coming in together from outside, both were smiling and laughing. Again, when they noticed me they got nervous looking and stopped, and the woman thanked the boss for buying her a cup of coffee, and I think she was trying to say that in a sly voice.

Now either they really hate me and want to get as far away from me as possible, or there is something going on here. I should mention that both of them are married. Of course, they have known each other a long time, maybe they are just friends and I'm overreacting.

So my question is, how do I proof it, and how can I blackmail them with this information?

(Just kidding about the last part)

[StoneGold]

Actually, I seem to remember a boss getting sued over this by other employees in California, since because of the affair, he was playing favorites with the one employee. Don't remember how it turned out though.

[Sean Walsh]

Actually, I seem to remember a boss getting sued over this by other employees in California, since because of the affair, he was playing favorites with the one employee. Don't remember how it turned out though.

Was it this guy maybe....

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/1/1f/Arnold_Schwarzenegger_bio.jpg

.....?

[Armless Penguin]

Break out the hidden cameras and get a promotion. That's what I say, anyway.

[SteelTownr]

It sounds for damn sure like they are fornicating on Company Time!

What do you do for a living, Super Hero Guy?

Mark B.

[Nikita]

The other day I was walking into the backroom of my work, and I saw my boss and another female employee sneaked away in a corner. My boss looked like he was carressing her arms and whispering something in her ear to which she was giggling at. When they realized I had entered the room the abruptly stopped what they were doing and went on to work as if nothing had happened.

Now, today I was at work and I saw my boss and the same woman coming in together from outside, both were smiling and laughing. Again, when they noticed me they got nervous looking and stopped, and the woman thanked the boss for buying her a cup of coffee, and I think she was trying to say that in a sly voice.

Now either they really hate me and want to get as far away from me as possible, or there is something going on here. I should mention that both of them are married. Of course, they have known each other a long time, maybe they are just friends and I'm overreacting.

So my question is, how do I proof it, and how can I blackmail them with this information?
(Just kidding about the last part)



Tell them you want a threesome.

[i_mmmchocolate]

Not worth thinking about, honestly.

[BlairH]

Not worth thinking about, honestly.


Exactly. If it were me I'd say "ahem. None of my business."

Unless -of course- it was a Democrat President/politician, in which case I'd say "Holy penis! What a scoop!"

[Donald M.]

The other day I was walking into the backroom of my work, and I saw my boss and another female employee sneaked away in a corner. My boss looked like he was carressing her arms and whispering something in her ear to which she was giggling at. When they realized I had entered the room the abruptly stopped what they were doing and went on to work as if nothing had happened.

Now, today I was at work and I saw my boss and the same woman coming in together from outside, both were smiling and laughing. Again, when they noticed me they got nervous looking and stopped, and the woman thanked the boss for buying her a cup of coffee, and I think she was trying to say that in a sly voice.

Now either they really hate me and want to get as far away from me as possible, or there is something going on here. I should mention that both of them are married. Of course, they have known each other a long time, maybe they are just friends and I'm overreacting.

So my question is, how do I proof it, and how can I blackmail them with this information?

(Just kidding about the last part)


It definately sounds like something is up between those two. If their relationship were totally innocent, they wouldn't be acting like a couple of kids caught with their hands in the cookie jar every time you happen to see them together.

That said, why would you want to prove it? As long as their affair doesn't effect you personally why should you care? They'll likely get caught eventually and will have to deal with the personal consequences. It really isn't your concern.

[Super Hero Guy]

Donald, did you notice that I said I was kidding about trying to proof it?

[Donald M.]

Donald, did you notice that I said I was kidding about trying to proof it?

I assumed you just meant you were kidding about wanting to blackmail them. As for trying to "proof" it, I figured you could just be trying to satisfy your own curiosity regarding the situation and you must be curious, to speculate on it and post about it here.

So yeah I noticed.

[rebelchelle]

If it makes you uncomfortable, then I'd avoid the two of them as much as possible. Depending on what type of work you do, this could be fairly easy. Of course, you wanted to be a deviant. You could try to follow their weekly schedule, then call up the spouses for a meeting at whatever time the two of them usually go back to the office... and sit back and watch the sparks fly.

[howyadoin]

If I were you, I'd watch my back. If they know you know, they might want you out of the picture to keep their little secret safe.

[Gary Joyce]

You'll probably find that everyone at work knows as it doesnt sound like they are being very secretive.