View Full Version : Guys need love too!
Trulyures
02-07-2006, 09:40 PM
You know now that I think about it....... us Girls our soo spoiled by guys..... Wouldn't you guys love it if your gf/bf or husband/wife surprised you with a little something or just a simple gift.... something to say I love you, Appreciation or something? I think you guys deserve it......^_^
Dan Apodaca
02-07-2006, 09:43 PM
Of course. Aren't all people people?
Trulyures
02-07-2006, 09:45 PM
No.... you guys are aliens..... ;) Well, you should meet the girls I know..... they're horrible gf's
Rachel Grey
02-07-2006, 09:46 PM
Of course. Aren't all people people?
No, you are all my puppets! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
Trystenn
02-07-2006, 09:47 PM
No, you are all my puppets! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
.........................................
Even Me?
Dan Apodaca
02-07-2006, 09:50 PM
No.... you guys are aliens..... ;) Well, you should meet the girls I know..... they're horrible gf's
Sounds like I shouldn't meet them.
Trulyures
02-07-2006, 09:51 PM
Sounds like I shouldn't meet them.
Well, if you know how to set them straight them probably yea...
Valmore
02-07-2006, 09:52 PM
One day my wife surprised me by calling me at work and telling me she was pregnant. Does that count?
(Of course, we'd been wanting to have a baby, so it was a good surprise.)
Trulyures
02-07-2006, 09:57 PM
One day my wife surprised me by calling me at work and telling me she was pregnant. Does that count?
(Of course, we'd been wanting to have a baby, so it was a good surprise.)
AWWWWWw......... that's a surprise but two people were involved so I'll say no....... lol, but pretty close... ;)
Calybos
02-08-2006, 05:40 AM
Appreciation, yes.
Surprises? Depends on the person. Some people hate surprises, and I'm one of them.
TinMan
02-08-2006, 05:56 AM
Appreciation, yes.
Surprises? Depends on the person. Some people hate surprises, and I'm one of them.
So if your old lady went out and bought you a stack of comics as a surprise you'd get pissed off? Thats just fucked up.
Anyway, for the question at hand; hell ya we need some surprises! I honestly get tired of having to be the one to initiate things. I'd like to find a chick that would surprise me by randomly wearing some erotic lingerie, or buy me something I like, or taking me to a movie or comic con w/o bitching cause she doesn't like it.
J Dog
02-08-2006, 06:00 AM
One day my wife surprised me by calling me at work and telling me she was pregnant. Does that count?
(Of course, we'd been wanting to have a baby, so it was a good surprise.)
It was a surprise, so yes.
nubly
02-08-2006, 03:09 PM
You know now that I think about it....... us Girls our soo spoiled by guys..... Wouldn't you guys love it if your gf/bf or husband/wife surprised you with a little something or just a simple gift.... something to say I love you, Appreciation or something? I think you guys deserve it......^_^
i loved it when the ex did that. but most guys wouldnt care either way because only a few guys can see the romantic gesture of doing this
Appreciation, yes.
Surprises? Depends on the person. Some people hate surprises, and I'm one of them.
Tru dat. Surprises aren't always a good thing. Personally, I don't really care for surprises, but I'm not gonna get bent outta shape by 'em neither.
phoenixrising
02-08-2006, 03:23 PM
Dude, I want to live in the same bizarro world as you - where men give women everything they want and men get nothing in return.
I don't think I've ever been "spoiled" per se, unless by "spoiled" you mean I didn't find out they were cheating until after we broke up....
Trulyures
02-08-2006, 03:26 PM
Appreciation, yes.
Surprises? Depends on the person. Some people hate surprises, and I'm one of them.
why? :D It's sooo fun:)
Trulyures
02-08-2006, 03:27 PM
i loved it when the ex did that. but most guys wouldnt care either way because only a few guys can see the romantic gesture of doing this
Well, some guys need some senses knocked into them then :D I would gladly do that^_^ sounds like fun
Trulyures
02-08-2006, 03:31 PM
Tru dat. Surprises aren't always a good thing. Personally, I don't really care for surprises, but I'm not gonna get bent outta shape by 'em neither.
so if the person said..... you know what I just want to give you a nice massage and treat you to whatever you like (including commics), would you say you would enjoy that?
nubly
02-08-2006, 03:37 PM
Well, some guys need some senses knocked into them then :D I would gladly do that^_^ sounds like fun
not a lot of guys are into S&M either :p
Dude, I want to live in the same bizarro world as you - where men give women everything they want and men get nothing in return.
I don't think I've ever been "spoiled" per se, unless by "spoiled" you mean I didn't find out they were cheating until after we broke up....
serious? you probably go after the 'bad boy' type then.
so if the person said..... you know what I just want to give you a nice massage and treat you to whatever you like (including commics), would you say you would enjoy that?
Most definitely. I would enjoy. There is no disputing that. Alls I was sayin' is that not every surprise is good. What you just described is a great surprise, and I would not object to it in any way.
bfrank
02-08-2006, 03:42 PM
You know now that I think about it....... us Girls our soo spoiled by guys..... Wouldn't you guys love it if your gf/bf or husband/wife surprised you with a little something or just a simple gift.... something to say I love you, Appreciation or something? I think you guys deserve it......^_^
you don't do this for your boyfriend (I'm assuming)?
I tell you if mine didn't do this, she would have been fired quite some time ago....
Trulyures
02-08-2006, 03:45 PM
Most definitely. I would enjoy. There is no disputing that. Alls I was sayin' is that not every surprise is good. What you just described is a great surprise, and I would not object to it in any way.
Oh, I see what you are saying... sorry for not making it as clear as it should be..^_^;
I tell you if mine didn't do this, she would have been fired quite some time ago....
It's like that for real? Ain't that just a little cold-blooded?
Trulyures
02-08-2006, 03:50 PM
you don't do this for your boyfriend (I'm assuming)?
I tell you if mine didn't do this, she would have been fired quite some time ago....
Don't have a Boy friend....lol
bfrank
02-08-2006, 03:52 PM
It's like that for real? Ain't that just a little cold-blooded?
I'm a libra, all about being fair and balanced....If I go out of the way to make the effort, I expect the same....if not, there are other fish in the sea....I'm not one to settle....
nubly
02-08-2006, 03:57 PM
I'm a libra, all about being fair and balanced....If I go out of the way to make the effort, I expect the same....if not, there are other fish in the sea....I'm not one to settle....
but doing something nice for he and expecting something back takes away the fun of it
I'm a libra, all about being fair and balanced....If I go out of the way to make the effort, I expect the same....if not, there are other fish in the sea....I'm not one to settle....
I suppose that's a fair stance to take on the issue...
bfrank
02-08-2006, 04:00 PM
but doing something nice for he and expecting something back takes away the fun of it
not at all....
Trulyures
02-08-2006, 04:01 PM
not a lot of guys are into S&M either :p
serious? you probably go after the 'bad boy' type then.
Lol...... Welll too bad...jk
phoenixrising
02-08-2006, 04:05 PM
serious? you probably go after the 'bad boy' type then.
No, I tend to go after the non-emotional type. They just have no concept of what women like - even when they're flat-out told.
Luckily, the current boyfriend is better at the whole consideration thing than those past.
BlairH
02-08-2006, 04:06 PM
I'm a libra, all about being fair and balanced....
I'm a Libra too, but as far as fair and balanced goes: I'm about as fair and balanced as Fox News!
Noah Johnson
02-08-2006, 04:09 PM
No, I tend to go after the non-emotional type. They just have no concept of what women like - even when they're flat-out told.
Luckily, the current boyfriend is better at the whole consideration thing than those past.
Dating geekboys, huh?
My female friends all complain about the difficulty of flirting with or seducing geeks. It's not just that we're clueless, though we are, it's that we're also actively resistant to the idea of a woman being attracted to us, and way too insecure to pursue any hints in case we're wrong.
Basically, we're the guys who sit there thinking to ourselves "She probably just meant 'Take me right here on the floor, you mighty stallion' in a friendly way."
Dating geekboys, huh?
My female friends all complain about the difficulty of flirting with or seducing geeks. It's not just that we're clueless, though we are, it's that we're also actively resistant to the idea of a woman being attracted to us, and way too insecure to pursue any hints in case we're wrong.
Basically, we're the guys who sit there thinking to ourselves "She probably just meant 'Take me right here on the floor, you mighty stallion' in a friendly way."
Not all geeks are that inept... are they?
phoenixrising
02-08-2006, 04:20 PM
But I agree that men like gifts and surprises as much as women - they just don't despertaely need them to be happy like so many women think they do.
nubly
02-08-2006, 07:50 PM
women...don't despertaely need them to be happy like so many women think they do.
OR....
you havent met a man that gets you the perfect surprises that make you think 'awww'
Trulyures
02-08-2006, 09:37 PM
Not all geeks are that inept... are they?
NO, of course not.... there's also very confident geekish people..... they're soo funny^_^
Trulyures
02-08-2006, 09:38 PM
OR....
you havent met a man that gets you the perfect surprises that make you think 'awww'
lol..... you're funny :p
Fabian
02-08-2006, 10:29 PM
A surprise would be nice but not counting the physical, it usually never happens
I did get the first issue of when Spider-Man first got the black costume as a gift once
And the latest girl I was with gave me two really good drawings. Here's one of them
http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2005-5/1005399/SaraFabian.jpg
Winslow
02-09-2006, 05:17 AM
And the latest girl I was with gave me two really good drawings. Here's one of them
That's a sweet pic . . .
My wife has surprised me when I came home from work, and she sent the kids away and was all dolled up in Victoria's Secret Lingerie . . . . I think any guy would like that kind of "surprise."
I think there was a thread awhile back about how people express and receive love differently. For me, I'm not really attached to "stuff." So a surprise that's "a memory" or and experience means more than a material gift.
My wife is wired similarly - so my surprises to her have been surprise weekends away or trips. I surprised her on our 10th anniversary with a Cruise.
Typo Lad
02-09-2006, 06:33 AM
No, you are all my puppets! MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!
That explains why you keep trying to put your hand up there!
K'Nort
02-09-2006, 01:20 PM
Both genders buy presents. Especially if they're insecure in the relationship.
i_mmmchocolate
02-09-2006, 01:39 PM
I love surprising folks, but I don't necessarily like it the other way round. It would have to be a very thoughtful surprise and not a last-minute sort of thing.
I don't give surprise gifts often, but when I do, I put a lot of thought into them.
Dreadstar
02-09-2006, 01:46 PM
Gifts? Surprises?
Am I the only neanderthal here who thinks the best surprise gift I could receive from my sig other would be her modeling her newest lingerie acquisition?
Super Samurai
02-09-2006, 01:47 PM
Eh I don't really need surprises. I'm just happy spending time with that person even if it's not surprising. But hey I can enjoy a good surprise as much as the next person.
K'Nort
02-09-2006, 01:53 PM
Gifts? Surprises?
Am I the only neanderthal here who thinks the best surprise gift I could receive from my sig other would be her modeling her newest lingerie acquisition?
I certainly hope not. I've always assumed it was a safe bet.
Dreadstar
02-09-2006, 01:55 PM
I certainly hope not. I've always assumed it was a safe bet.
Damn straight, it is.
You want me to turn off Monday Night Football and come to bed, just casually stroll in front of the TV in that babydoll set...
i_mmmchocolate
02-09-2006, 02:03 PM
The '...' was a nice touch.
Dreadstar
02-09-2006, 02:09 PM
I don't think there's anything I can say to that that won't come off as lewd and lascivious, so I'll just shut up.
Oh! and:
...
Rachel Grey
02-09-2006, 09:55 PM
That explains why you keep trying to put your hand up there!
ROTFLMAO! Good one! :D
Trulyures
02-09-2006, 10:12 PM
Eh I don't really need surprises. I'm just happy spending time with that person even if it's not surprising. But hey I can enjoy a good surprise as much as the next person.
I would have to agree with you .... I'm a girl of course, but spending time is on of the priceless gifts to give. You don't even have to pay that much if you didn't want to :D
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